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Shay
An e-mail, as
we received it from J.C.T., Texas
What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't
look for a punch line, there isn't one Read it
anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
same choice?
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves
learning-disabled children, the father of one of
the students delivered a speech that would never
be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling
the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a
question: "When not interfered with by outside
influences, everything nature does is done with
perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things
as other children do. He cannot understand things
as other children do. Where is the natural order
of things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. "I believe that when a
child like Shay, physically and mentally
handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity
to realize true human nature presents itself, and
it comes in the way other people treat that
child."
Then he told the following story:
Shay and his father had walked past a park where
some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay
asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's
father knew that most of the boys would not want
someone like Shay on their team, but the father
also understood that if his son were allowed to
play, it would give him a much-needed sense of
belonging and some confidence to be accepted by
others in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's father approached one of the boys on the
field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could
play. The boy looked around for guidance and said,
"We're losing by six runs and the game is in the
eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and
we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
inning."
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with
a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father
watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in
his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his
son being accepted In the bottom of the eighth
inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was
still behind by three. In the top of the ninth
inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
right field. Even though no hits came his way, he
was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and
on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his
father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom
of the ninth inning, Shay's t eam scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the
potential winning run was on base and Shay was
scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give
away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly,
Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit
was all but impossible because Shay didn't even
know how to hold the bat properly, much less
connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the
pitcher, recognizing that the other team was
putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's
life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in
softly so Shay could at least make contact. The
first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and
missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward
to t oss the ball softly towards Shay. As the
pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a
slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up
the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the
ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been
out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the
first baseman's head, out of reach of all team
mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams
started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to
first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that
far, but he made it to first base. He scampered
down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!"
Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards
second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the
base. By the time Shay rounded towards second
base, the right fielder had the ball . the
smallest guy on their team who now had his first
chance to be the hero for his team. He could have
thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag,
but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he,
too, intentionally threw the ball high and far
over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward
third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way
Shay"
Shay reached third base because the opposing
shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the
direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to
third! Shay, run to third!"
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams,
and the spec tators, were on their feet screaming,
"Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home,
stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero
who hit the grand slam and won the game for his
team.
"That day", said the father softly with tears now
rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams
helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
into this world".
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died
that winter, having never forgotten being the hero
and making his father so happy, and coming home
and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little
hero of the day!
AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all
send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without
a second thought, but when it comes to sending
messages about life choices, people hesitate. The
crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely
through cyberspace, but public discussion about
decency is too often suppressed in our schools and
workplaces.
If you're thinking about forwarding this message,
chances are that you're probably sorting out the
people in your address book who aren't the
"appropriate" ones to receive this type of
message. Well, the person who sent you this
believes that we all can make a difference. We all
have thousands of opportunities every single day
to help realize the "natural order of things." So
many seemingly trivial interactions between two
people present us with a choice: Do we pass along
a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass
up those opportunities and leave the world a
little bit colder in the process?
A wise man once said every society is judged by
how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.
You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2. Forward
May your day, be a Shay Day.
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