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This section was
prompted by the loss of our beloved pet, Chester
Chester was born in our yard nearly
15 years ago to a stray tortoise shell cat. (brief
tribute) We
were shocked at our reaction to losing him on January 1, 2007,
and suspect we are not alone. A beloved pet may be the most
significant thing in the life of a senior. Its death may cause
all kinds of emotions; grief, depression, a sense of
hopelessness, a feeling that you are next. As a Senior's
activities have been curtailed, caring for the pet may have
become their main occupation. Its loss can be overwhelming
If God keeps his eye on the
sparrow, I know that he watches this dear little one.
Saying
Good-bye to your Beloved Pet and Friend
When a person dies, there is
often a network of family, friends and professionals to help
loved ones with the painful process of grieving. There is
usually a memorial service where the family says good-bye and
expresses their sorrow, and it is expected and accepted that
family and close friends will need sympathy and assistance in
the days ahead. When a pet dies, those left behind are often
alone with their grief.
Just as with the death of a
person, it is important to say good-bye to your pet to
formalize the death and help you with your grief. Here are
some suggestions on how to memorialize your pet's life:
- Record happy memories in a
journal or a letter to your pet.
- Make a photo album or
collage containing vivid recollections of times you two
shared.
- Plan a memorial service
with readings, music and other rituals that focus on your
pet.
- Make a donation in your
pet's name.
- Do volunteer work to help
other animals.
These activities help to
honor the animal while accepting the finality of the death. A
better understanding of the stages of grief may help you work
through your feelings.
Hawaiian Humane Society
This section will be expanded
in 2007. We welcome your stories or suggestions for the
benefit of other grieving Seniors. |
